Wednesday, July 12, 2017


I haven't been here for a while.

Life is good. 

Over the weekend, I went over to my best friend's place to fiddle around with manuals and bolts and screws to help her set up more furniture (which I had helped her purchase and lug home from IKEA).

We went to the pool to hang out after that, and she told me about the sky garden.

" You have a sky garden? "
" Yeah! Haven't I ever taken you? "

So we went to the sky garden and watched the sun set from there while just talking about deep life stuff. 

" Isn't it funny.. I still feel like I'm a kid but when you think about it, there are peers our age who already have kids. "

And I do really mean it. I still feel like a kid - and how is it that we're already expected to get married and settle down and get promoted and upgrade the car and have kids and renovate the kitchen and change the diapers and paint the fence and look for a kindy and and and

When there are so many books to read, people to meet, places to discover, weekends to laze, trails to hike, mountains to conquer, countries to traverse, adventures to explore and and and


Tuesday, July 11, 2017


" You deserve to be burned alive for arousing the desires of men and stirring up their temptation to sin! " he spat at her with venom in his words.


She was recounting her visit to a far-flung land of a thousand exotic Gods and marvellous monuments, of deliciously spicy foods and cobbled streets.

On her first day, she jumped out of bed barely able to contain her excitement to uncover all there was to explore.

She decided to don a three quarter sleeved blouse with a modest neckline and a full length, comfy, loose fitted pair of pants, and sturdy sandals. Her head and wrists were exposed.

" You deserve to be burned alive for arousing the desires of men and stirring up their temptation to sin! "

Standing by the street, a man looked her leeringly up and down, before condescendingly proclaiming his vitriolic judgement upon her then jauntily strolling off.


Back home as she repeated the incident to us, our first responses were indignant and scorn

" The very nerve of him! "
" Who does he think he is? "
" How could anyone be so lacking in moral code and discernment? "

However as the discussion developed, a different angle came into light

What if, to the people of that land, a woman with any part of her revealed was akin 

to Muslims what it would be to have someone bring a pig into the compound of a mosque?
to Christians what it would be to have someone paint the symbol of the Antichrist on the church walls?
to Jews what it would be to be gifted the flag of the Nazi?

Perhaps, what is considered 'right', 'acceptable', and 'moral' differs from one person to another ; perhaps the world is more nuanced than logical, more cloudy than clear.

Just my thought of the day.